The D2KS LOVE Mission is to create Expansive Harmony in this world, and on so many levels, us Men and Woman must CHOOSE TO EVOLVE into a whole other paradigm of existence compared to what we have witnessed, experienced, and co-created in this lifetime. 

The focus of this piece is transcending and moving Beyond the Blame Paradigm.

In the last 24 hours of time, do you recall feeling the energy of Blame? 

Is it a familiar energy to you?

Has Blame become so normalized within your life that, the energy of Blame is not even a blip on your radar of awareness?

If each of us takes a moment right now to be radically honest with one’s Self about these three questions, some insights may arise that spark a desire to move Beyond Blame.

Blamed or Blaming

Whether someone is being blamed for something or blaming someone else, the blame energy is present and it is really two sides of the same coin.  We have started removing the penny from circulation in current Canadian society, and as I see it, we must remove this metaphorical “Blame Coin” from society in order to create Expansive Harmony in this world.

Being blamed for something, whether as a kid spilling the fingerpaint or as an adult aged man or woman overcooking dinner, does not vibrate on the frequency of feeling good. 

On that flip side of the coin, blaming someone does not feel good either, and that feeling results from the frequency that blame energy radiates.

Transcending Blame, Moment by Moment

A significant step to move Beyond Blame is regularly contemplating the questions at the beginning of this piece, such that our awareness becomes more attuned to when this energy is present.

On a moment to moment to basis in relation with others, an exercise to practise is to observe yourself in a discussion.  

First as the speaker, can you have a discussion where you are simply stating things for clarity, that are just perceptions and observations and are Beyond Blame? 

Be honest with yourself as you practise.

As a listener in a discussion, can you hear another, stating things for clarity, that are simply their perceptions and observations, without immediately feeling like you are being blamed? 

Can you calmly listen and receive their experience, even if it relates to something you did or said?

These two scenarios are highly powerful exercises that can lead to transformation of relationships with others. 

As these exercises are performed with deep sincerity, we may experience a new found compassion for the other in relationship or profound compassion for oneself.

LOVE

To move Beyond Blame does not imply absence of responsibility, it actually allows for complete Self Responsibility as the Way of Being in One’s life. 

If that sounds paradoxical, it may be because you are used to the old paradigm of thinking. 

As we Tune into LOVE, the concept of blame disintegrates. 

The Blame Coin becomes obsolete.

To Consciously Connect for an initial Collaboration Session where we can peel back these blame patterns and take full responsibility of our life, please email Remember@D2KS.LOVE or click below.

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